The most embarrassing loss in my illustrious WOWs career

I'm in the Maass. The Leberecht Maass to be exact. Arguably the weakest DD in that tier. The battle seems to favor the enemy early, and after supporting the west side of the map I begin to shift center to help halt the brunt of the enemy's push from the East. Wretched detectability and corresponding torp range affect my ability to make aggressive moves, especially since the enemy also has a Lo Yang with similar hydroacoustic characteristics. Fortune favors us and the battlefield begins to shift. With just myself and a friendly Kagero remaining VS a King George, Iowa, and a Roon. Both of us hanging on my hitpoints that a sneeze could remedy. Our mission is simple, run the clock out and we win on points. I decide if the caps are contested that focusing on the KG together would be the most beneficial as the Iowa and Roon were likely running close enough to support each other. At no point did I expect either of us to put ourselves in a position to become detected. We would simply cross torp the KG from a distance and attempt to get that kill if we needed it. OH how things turned sideways in a hurry. The Kagero thought it would be wise to YOLO an 85% health KG, and I... well I suffered the most embarrassing situation in my wargaming existence. The clock struck zero, we were ahead on points, and a secondary shell from the Iowa takes me out. So many things I could have done differently. I give my soul to RNGesus.